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Crossroads

How to make sure your child is ready for the first day of elementary, middle or high school.

Depending on your approach, the first day of school can be either an annual ordeal or an exciting ritual. Here are ways of managing your grade-, middle- or high-schooler’s expectations.

Elementary School

Allow your child to select her own lunch box, backpack and outfit for the first day of school.
Sew name tags or write your child’s name in indelible ink on clothing that he is likely to take off during the school day and also on removable items like headbands, hats and jackets.
Read through and review school regulations with your child. Make sure all school forms have been completed and returned.
Even if you can’t do so every day, bring your child to the bus stop or to school on the first day. Say a cheerful good-bye and leave promptly when the bus comes or the school bell rings.

Middle School

Survey last year’s wardrobe together and replace items that no longer fit or need to be updated.

Encourage him to take the lead on shopping for basic school supplies. Remember that his teachers are likely to provide a comprehensive list of “must-haves” once classes begin.

Talk with your child about after-school activities he would like to participate in and make the necessary arrangements.

Familiarize your child and yourself with his new school-year schedule.

Do your best to be home when your child returns from school on the first day to talk to your child about first-day impressions and to address all comments and concerns.

High School

Be ready to grant your child some new privileges. Allowing him to make decisions about his own back-to-school shopping is a good way to show trust in his judgment.
Make sure all school forms have been completed and returned.
Remind your child to pack his book bag the night before, and try to get him in bed at a reasonable hour.
On the first day of school, let your child know where you’ll be all day and how to reach you. Go over after-school plans, and be sure to say a cheerful good-bye.
After school, ask for any notices that may have been sent home and designate a place in the house for school paperwork.